This short talk tells a story of when Val felt shut down and criticized in a public setting and how it affected her. Thankfully, she realized she likes the attribute he shamed her for, so DAMMIT, she's going to be herself!
From Val Selby:
I’m Val Selby and just like you, I've been through years of putting everyone else first – to the point where I didn't even know what I wanted anymore. It sucked :(
Years as the wife of a firefighter, mom to amazing sports loving children, and daughter to 3 sets of loving parents, I was making everyone else feel taken care of – but rarely myself.
Through an exciting journey of self re-discovery, I found my old awesome self and DAMMIT I like her! All the parts of myself I'd tucked away and tried to change have come back out to play and I'm here to tell you, it's fricking awesome!