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Episode #71: Is Your Get Back Up Rhythm Fast Or Slow?
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Do you put yourself in the penalty box when you self sabotage? A self punishment phase is often responsible for a slow ‘get back up' rhythm. Let's talk about it on this episode!

Stages to change for me look a bit like this:  (Imagine the ‘something' is the self punishment phase –  but you can swap it out for anything really)

  • I do something unknowingly and create something I don't like.
  • I become aware of what I'm doing.
  • I still do something knowingly and create something I don't like.
  • I become aware that I could do something different.
  • I try not to do something knowingly and realize after I've done it that I did it again and created something I don't like.
  • I try not to do something knowingly and notice as I'm doing it and still do it and created something I don't like.
  • I try not to do something knowing and notice as I'm doing it and stop – nice!
  • I try not to do something knowingly and notice I'm about to do it and still do it – oops.
  • I try not to do something knowingly and notice I'm about to do it and stop – nice!
  • I try not to do something knowingly and don't even notice I didn't do it and when I realize it later, I feel so good.
  • I don't even have to try anymore, I just don't do it and I'm creating something I like!

It's not a perfect progression, sometimes there's slippage… but since I'm always growing, I'm always aiming in the ‘create something I like' direction ❤

Next time you fall down:

  1. Find the consequence and acknowledge it.
  2. Skip the punishment phase!

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